Is marriage a holy matrimony or a fame gimmick?
Monday, March 8th, 2010 at
9:06 am
Is marriage still as significant and important as it was back in the good old days?
For example, clearly Kevin married Britney just for fame, money and lust.
Come on how good a man can he be if he is willing to leave his previous wife who was pregnant with his second child to marry Britney.
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Let’s face it, with a 66% divorce rate in this nation, and of those, 20% are admittedly unhappy, marriage is thankfully becoming a thing of the past. Yet millions continue to throw away their dreams and goals, and trap themselves. Why? The answer is quite simple: Money. There are literally BILLIONS to be made off of foolish people. We are all born with the impression that "You are going to be miserable unless you marry someone." This is often said by the parents, whom are either miserable, or divorced themselves, wanting what they think is the best for their children. The media, fueled by dollars, pushes the wife, husband and three kids’ image daily upon everyone using TV, radio, internet, even respectable newspapers engage in this propaganda. The "marriage industry" has (as I said earlier) billions at stake. The TRUTH is: you are your own person. Marriage is (in this modern day) a defunct, un useful, and in some cases, a brutal way of oppression against ones dreams, desires, wishes, hopes, and free wills. Now, I am in no way wishing upon anyone engaged in a monogamous relationship to stop. It is imperative however, that the two people engaged in the relationship, heterosexual or homosexual, be free to do what they want. If one wants to go to schooling, get a different job, or travel, the partner has absolutely NO right to attempt to force the other person not to. Do not believe the hype. Do not believe the lies. Marriage is NOT essential to health. Millions live happily single. You are not miserable alone. You do not need kids, (our populations are too large anyway.) You and your partner do not need to be married. What does a certificate of marriage prove? Does it decide how you feel for someone? All that certificate does is cement the current situation you are in. It is extremely costly both to your credit, and your wallet to break from whatever situation you may have gotten yourself into by spending thousands on a wedding that all led to this: Misery. Be smart people, be yourselves.
IT REALLY DEPENDS ON YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE. TO ME PERSONALLY- MARRIAGE IS SACRED AND IT WILL ALWAYS BE.
I am answering this on my wifes profile. My wife and I just got married last month. Before the wedding, we went to pre-marital counselling. We’ve had a great relationship for five years. To me, getting married has brought us even closer together. Something that I didn’t think was possible. I now have a firmer sense of security about our future together, and all aprehension about having children is now gone. I feel with the diminished morals in todays society it is more important than it used to be, especially if you intend to have kids.
It sounds as if you have a commitment problem and are blaming it on society and money. Instead of looking at marriage as a gift you are looking at it as if it is something to run from. Not everyone who gets married has children, nor are thy all miserable as you have tried to portray marital partners in your rant here. Even if you are not married and have been together for years and have no piece of paper every relationship has a give and take. I was once told 90/10 on both sides. Every relationship has a time when it is good and bad because no one is perfect not even you. I do agree though it depends on your heart and how you feel about marriage. Personally I think it should be sacred.
Depends on how u see it. Different ppl have diff attitudes towards marriage. What’s important is u always have to remember that marriage is a partnership. U have a permanent companion to share ur life with,to share kids with and everything else that life throws at u,good or bad. For me marriage is a holy matrimony to last me till the end of time. Those who see it as a fame gimmick obviously don’t understand the meaning of marriage.
No. If one or the other in a marriage gets bored or sees someone that they like, they think it’s perfectly OK to dump a marriage and start over. Everybody wants instant gratification these days. That’ why the divorce rate in this country is so high.