My wedding is not for another year, but I would just like an idea of how much should be spent on each on my groomsmen and bridesmaids. they are all doing alot for this wedding so i want to show them im very appreciative. i want to give them something above average, but i dont know what average is to begin with…. so what is the average value of a bridal party gift?? so i know where to work from there.




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I’m playing the piano for a wedding and I need some music for the prelude. Also, the bride said she hasn’t decided on a piece for the bridal party and asked for some suggestions.

So, what pieces are good for a fairly traditional prelude and bridal party. Links for the sheet music (preferably free :P) would be nice.

For the prelude, I am playing a nice arrangement of Over the Rainbow, and some pieces by Yiruma. (To give you an idea) The processional for the bride is Variations on Canon by George Winston. And the traditional wedding march for the recessional.




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I will be attending my boyfriend’s brother’s wedding next month. I saw this dress I really like but it’s similar to the color of the bridesmaid dresses. I’m not sure if it’s ok to get this dress and wear it to the wedding. Is it ok for me to wear the same colors of the bridal party or should I stay away from their colors?




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I am looking to buy gifts for my bridal party. I have 21 people in total. I don’t want to over do it or under do it…how much should I spend on each gift?




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What is a fun song to have the bridal party dance to?




I don’t want a slow song for the bridal party to dance to. What would be a fun, *clean* song?

Thanks for your ideas!




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I do not have a bridal party just 2 witnesses. No one is planning a shower for me. My fiance and I just bought a house and are moving in soon. Is it Ok for us to throw a housewarming instead? Of course we would not ask for gifts but would hope our close friends would know it’s kind of in lieu of a shower.




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I need some ideas. I originally ordered some cute travel totes for my bridesmaids, but the company cancelled the order due to shipping issues. Now I need other ideas…nothing too expensive. I have 5 in the bridal party.

If you have an internet link to a cool item please post it!
I should’ve mentioned that I really dont want to buy jewelry.

I’m seeing a common thread….gift cards may be the way to go? That’s not too tacky though is it? I don’t want it to seem bland and thoughtless, but at the same time it’d be great to give them something they can use.




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I am getting married soon and I wanted to know if the bridal party is supposed to receive a wedding invitation even though they will be in the wedding.




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For the bride it will be Canon In D and I wasn’t sure what should be played for the rest of the bridal party???




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What is the point of having a bridal party?




You might think i’m being funny but im not. I really just dont understand what the whole point of having a bridal party is.

Could you help me please?




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My best friend (who is Irish) is getting married and I would like to throw her an Irish themed wedding shower. Conveniently, we will be having the shower in March, right around St. Patrick’s Day, but other than that I have no idea what else to do. Can anyone offer any suggestions as to common traditions at bridal showers in Ireland or any ideas at all that I could use for this bridal party? Thanks so much!




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What is a fun song to introduce the bridal party?




Right now we have chosen "Bittersweet Symphony." We really like the song, but I we are looking for something a little more fun.

Any ideas of songs to introduce the bridal party to and songs to introduce my fiance and I would be appreciated! Thanks




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My wedding gown is a satin and silk blend and my bridal party dresses are black taffeta. Would that really matter if they are two completely different materials? Thanks in advance.




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Need help! Planning wedding shower for 1st time…?




My best friend is getting married in May 2010. She doesn’t want anything too over-the-top or big. It’s just going to be a small, laid-back, beach wedding (in St. Augustine, FL), with close family and friends. I am the Maid-of-honor and I am working on planning the wedding shower right now. I don’t know much about all of this because my husband and I just went to the court house. We decided to go all out for a vow renewal on our 5th anniversary in 2 years, so this is good practice! lol! : ) Like I said, the wedding is going to be in May, so I have a while to get everything together, but I’m a perfectionist. Not to mention, this is for my best friend, it’s extremely important to me to do everything I possibly can to make all of this wonderful for her, so I want to start planning early! : )

The bridal party is small, the bride, myself, and 3 bridesmaids. The wedding shower will also be small, it will just be the bridal party, the brides mother and possibly the grooms mother. So, 6-7 people. I have already decided to go with the obvious beach theme seeing as how it’s a beach wedding. We will either have the shower at someones home or at a public place, maybe a park or even on the beach. I have also decided, after speaking to another bridesmaid and the brides mother, that we don’t want to serve a meal at the party, but we do want to have plenty of food. Finger food, snacks, that kind of thing. And, of course, cake! : ) We were thinking we should have some kind of punch for the alcohol and then just other drinks, sodas, etc. We are going to have the party earlier in the day, so there’s no need for tons of alcohol. I have also found several bridal shower games that sound like a lot of fun, but I’m having trouble narrowing them down. Not to mention, I’m not really sure how many games I should pick… So, all that being said, I am looking for some advice. ANY advice would be greatly appreciated, but I do have some specific things that I need advice on as well. So…

1 - What kind of food (and drinks) would be good to serve at a bridal shower? Like I said, we don’t want a meal, just finger food/snacks.

2 - How many games would you suggest I pick? And do you have a favorite bridal shower game that you would suggest?

3 - Any suggestions for cute, but not crazy expensive party favors? Also, I will need to get some prizes for the people that win each of the games, any suggestions for that?… As for the favors, I found these adorable little white woven-wood type boxes that have a beautiful beach portrait on each lid. They were on sale, so I had to get them! lol! : ) I was thinking of using those as a gift basket kind of thing. I wanted to try and find maybe a couple small items to put in each one and use those for the favors. Then figure out something else for the game prizes. Or, I could do it the other way around.

4 - Also, any advice/suggestions on decorations and invitations would be very helpful. I would like to make as much of that kind of stuff as possible. I love craft type stuff, so I think it would be fun.

So yeah, I guess that’s about it. Sorry this was so long, I just wanted to make sure I got everything in there. And thanks in advance for any advice, suggestions, etc. : )
Thank you all for the answers! : ) And Ryan F, congrats, and good luck with everything!!! : )




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I consider the shower my present but was wondering if that is still the case. The bridal party all knows I am spending a good amount of money on the shower (2 of us are paying for it) and they keep asking me if I want to go in on a present for the bride. I feel kind of guilty but am spending enough money already. Please also note I am throwing the bachelorette party and am taking care of all the expense of the bride for the night.




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